dandelions and a wii
I had a bad day last week. This spring season, I’ve been having a hard time winning the battle for my yard, and it seems as though the dandelions are winning. So, last Tuesday, I race home from work to mow my lawn and spread around a bag of the weed-and-feed that I bought to kill these things.
About the time I was getting ready, my Father in Law was walking my two youngest boys home when he looks at me and starts laughing very loudly, exclaiming that I have so many dandelions in my yard a little bag of weed-and-feed will only take care of the front patch.
I wasn’t very amused.
Later in the evening, my middle son is putting some toys away, and he notices that one of our Wii games has gone missing. So, he tells me that he thinks it’s in the actual Wii console. Except that when he pushes the eject button, the gears don’t spit out a game, they just grind. So, at this point I’m about to lose it. I take the Wii apart only to discover that my 3 year old son had used it as a piggy bank. Out poured 25 or 30 coins, most of which had destroyed the Wii’s insides.
I was not a happy camper.
At that moment I remembered the words of Jesus, “Be angry and do not sin.” Have you ever tried to tell someone who’s angry, “be angry and do not sin” ?
There’s a passage in Mark 3 where Jesus is angry at the religious people who had gathered around him. They were looking for a way to accuse him of disobeying their traditions by healing a man with a disfigured hand on the Sabbath. The passage says that Jesus was angry with them. And while he’s angry, he asks them what is the right thing to do? He essentially says, “which would you rather me do on your Sabbath, good or evil? Which is better? Should I save a life or end one?”
Do you ever notice that low-level of anger just brewing around below the surface, that when something is out of the norm; you have to sit in traffic, your office coffee machine runs out right when you go to use it, the 10-items or less line has someone ahead of you with 25 items; you just get upset? That’s one of the things I find myself guilty of.
Jesus gets angry. But he doesn’t redirect his anger on trivial things. Instead, Jesus does something good with his anger. He heals someone.
Do you remember in high school when your guidance counselor asked you, “If you had a million dollars, what would you do?”, and that’s what you’re supposed to do with your life? What if the question was, “What makes you angry? When you look at the world around you, what makes you angry?” Maybe it’s children living in poverty or disease or injustice or the way Christians treat others…or whatever it is…maybe we operate with this low level of anger because we’re not using our anger to heal the world; we’re not using it where it counts.
It’s funny how something as simple as a weed in my yard and a video game system can be so significantly insignificant in my life…
Great post. Is it wrong that I was feeling your pain about the wii?! I felt the anger and it’s not even mine!
I appreciate your “understanding”
You know, he probably wasn’t using it as a piggy bank as much as he was just waiting for it to do something fun! I mean, geez, he kept feeding money to the machine- no ride? No show? He probably felt totally cheated!
You’re probably right. Although not something I was thinking at the time.
When Abby was younger and visiting my family, we kept losing her hair clips. She finally told us she put them in “the slot.” Took us days to figure out that meant the disk drive in the computer
Sooo…how’d you get the wii apart? I ask because my search results for “help, my kid put coins in the will” returned your page. Any advice?
Yeah, I had to use a small screwdriver–one used for eyeglasses to unscrew all of the multiple screws to get the housing off, and then had to pry open the bolts. They should pop right off.